Winning back an ex can be quick and simple when you know how. Most people tend to give up, not realising that, like most things in life, it takes commitment to make things happen.

You should find it encouraging to know that practically all relationships can be restored regardless of why the break up happened.

Irrespective of how hopeless you may think the chances are of getting back together, or how resistant your ex is at fixing the broken relationship, you can still learn the steps that will bring about the result you are after: winning back an ex.

Below are 2 steps you can follow to reconcile you with your ex. It is possible that you will see immediate results. Winning back an ex and enjoying the loving relationship that once was can be regained in two simple steps:

Step 1: Why was your ex interested in you?

Your ex was attracted to you and fell in love with you before, so your ex may fall in love with you again. In this case, your first step to winning back an ex is to remember the first time you discovered your ex had special feelings towards you. Recall what had attracted that person to you: why was your ex interested in you at the start of your relationship? Also remember how you treated your love at the beginning of your relationship.

It makes sense that if you act and behave in the same way as you did before you started the relationship, the chances of you winning back your love will be greater. And as you do that also think back and identify what changed during the relationship; what was once there that disappeared.

If, in fact, it wasn’t you that changed but your ex, perhaps because he or she have grown as an individual, it’s up to you to determine what your ex now wants from you as a partner; find out the type of partner your ex wants to grow his relationship with.

Step 2: Why sleeping with your ex is detrimental.

This may come as a surprise to you, in their effort to winning back an ex, many men and women are under the illusion that if they ‘casually’ sleep with their ex they are sure to win him or her back.

I am here to tell you to never, ever sleep with your ex after a break up, no matter what. Sleeping with him or her is very damaging on your journey to winning back an ex. He or she will not get back with you in spite of what you may think.

You may be a casual fling, a few ‘one night stands’, but you will never regain the relationship you once had. You are giving the signal to your ex that he or she can have you whenever he or she wants with no strings attached. Is that what you want? Surely not! Winning back an ex this way will never lead to a long lasting, loving relationship.

Would you like him or her to have you for the security or comfort of good and enjoyable sex without the emotional feelings? When you sleep with your ex all you’re doing is live in the short-lived fantasy world of spending a few minutes of passion together; a temporary fix.

Realise that sex will not mend your relationship and bring back your ex to you.

So there you have it, 2 proven steps that bring results. Think about what interested your ex in you in the first place and do not be tempted to sleep with him in the hope of getting him or her back. Winning back an ex requires commitment and knowledge. Now you are armed with both.

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