In this article are powerful tips on how to get a ex boyfriend back. If you have experienced a break up, and you’re wondering how you can get him back, rest assured there are ways for you to do that.

You might think it requires a lot of effort, whereas in actuality it doesn’t. It just needs careful thinking and planning; being nice and acting naturally. You might be saying, “What! Be nice and act naturally?” Yes. By be nice and act naturally I mean cut out that nagging and stop being unpleasant. When you act nice towards him, he’s more likely to realise what he’s missing, and he may start wishing he had you back in his arms.

Being troublesome will just push him further away from you.

And what about acting naturally even though you may still be hurt? By acting naturally I mean be yourself; do not try to be another person, for you cannot act like someone else for too long. Your ex boyfriend will see right through you.

Just be your normal self, without showing the hurt and the pain, the emptiness of being alone. Be yourself; the natural person that you are (before the break up).

So now that we got that established, we delve into how to get a ex boyfriend back, effectively and with no fuss:

1. Abandon the trickery game: disregard any tricks you thought of pulling to get your ex boyfriend back. They simply do not work. As a matter of fact, they will only backfire on you, and you may never get him back; he will be gone forever.

Some tricks could make things worse. For example, if you start dating solely with the intention of making him jealous, he may think you’ve moved on and don’t want him back (even though he may be thinking of asking you back). Again, you’ve shot yourself in the foot.

2. Abandon the idea of flirting with your ex’s friends: this is a sure fire way to get your ex boyfriend outraged, with virtually zero chance of making up to him. This is totally taboo; flirting with your ex boyfriend’s circle of friends can be very damaging.

Not only can you make things worse for yourself, you make it worse for his close friends, too. You will also isolate the man you want back from the inner circle of friends. How do you think that will make him feel about you?

3. Abandon pushing for answers: your third and final powerful tip on ‘how to get a ex boyfriend back’ is never to corner him and push him for answers as to why he broke up with you.

It does more damage than good if you keep pestering him, harassing him for an explanation as to why he left you. More often than not, women claim they want to know the truth in the belief that it is something they can immediately fix.

The thing is, what if it’s something you are unable to immediately fix? What then? Refrain from pestering him, give him space. Let him think about the break up calmly and without any unnecessary pressure.

Truth is, there is no specific trick to ‘how to get a ex boyfriend back’. All it takes is kindness, thoughtfulness and some consideration.

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